Sunday, October 28, 2018

Ina's First Blog Post

Monday Ina woke up not feeling the best and sounding raspy, but without a fever, so to school she went. She went to the nurse twice (still no fever), but I could tell when I picked her up she was worse. By the time we pulled into their dance studio for lessons she could barely hold her head up or keep her eyes all the way open.

While she was home sick with me we watched movies, went to my eyebrow wax appointment and then, out of the blue, Ina told me she wanted to start her own "dot com." I happily informed her that I actually have my own "dot com" and showed her my blog. She was excited to see a picture of herself pop up on the computer screen, so we read a few recent posts. She later requested that we take a picture and that she write something. Here it is:

"I love my mom. This is a picture that we took together. And I love it. I love this house. I love this whole world. And I love this future. My mom. My dad. Cora. And Mira. Help me continue my life."

I think the end might have trailed off into a prayer...but either way, I thought it was cute.

I took the girls to get their flu shots on Thursday and was reminded why I rarely take all three of them anywhere by myself. They were generally well behaved, it is just difficult to take a three year old to the bathroom while a one year old is wanting to play with the toys. Ina and Cora fought the shots hard, although Cora didn't cry afterwards. Ina promised she would never want her ears pierced after that experience. Everyone was rewarded with donuts afterwards.

That evening was Ina's parent teacher conferences where Ina's teacher made Dan and I blush more than once with all the fantastic things she had to say about Ina. I loved hearing that all of her reading/math/social/leadership skills were well beyond kindergarten expectations.

We are so proud of her, but Dan and I approach that emotion in very different ways. I tried to talk to her teacher about the things she could still work on (taking her time on her worksheets) and ways we could keep her stimulated when the class is going over something she already knows (helping other kids, helping the teacher, quietly reading books, more problems, etc). Dan, on the other hand, only wanted to talk about her skipping right on to second grade. That poor teacher, and if that wasn't enough, while we were having this conversation, scavenger Cora had found the teacher's half eaten piece of pizza on her desk and started eating it (mmmm, that was good pizza Momma!) while Mira found the one remote in the room and re-set the electronic blackboard settings.

We set the bar high for parent teacher conferences.

Friday Ina and Cora went with Grandma Frankie to the pumpkin patch and then stayed the night at her house, so Dan and I had a semi-date night with a one year old. We brought home Chipotle and Mira played with the first meal ever ordered specifically for her while we watched Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them.

Saturday I went on a long walk by myself (listening to a new favorite podcast - The Mom Hour) before working a few hours and finishing up some chores around the house.

Then I took my sweet time getting ready, and we dropped Mira off at Granny's and went to a high school friend's wedding, which required my curling iron to come out of the drawer.

The wedding was beautiful, the weather was gorgeous, and the food was delicious. An all around good night.

After church on Sunday we attempted to carve pumpkins while simultaneously preparing/eating lunch, watching the Chiefs game, and cleaning the house for small group.

Every year I think that carving pumpkins will be a fun experience and every year it is much more stressful than fun. Some of that stress may have been because there were so many other things going on, or maybe because Ina has very high expectations (she originally wanted to carve an entire sentence about how much she loved her family into her pumpkin and then settled for an octopus), or perhaps because it just isn't that fun.

There are only so many times that singing the Batman theme song (thankfully Cora picked something that was much easier to carve) and jumping up and down can brighten the mood.

Maybe next year we should paint them?

(Cora's great photography skills)

Have a great week! <3

Recipes from the week:

Cheeseburger salad with roasted sweet potato fries- if we carry our favorite summer recipe into fall, can we pretend the pool is still open?

Goulash - so delicious. We used new-to-me lentil noodles that were family approved. All three girls cleaned their plates!

Chicken pot pie soup with homemade biscuits and a salad (x3  and took 1/3 of it to Ina and Cora's dance teacher, who injured herself with boiling water). This was basically comfort in a bowl.

Pollo Sabroso with green sauce, roasted broccoli, and veggie rice. Another favorite summer meal. So YUM.

Tuesday, October 23, 2018

Fall Fun


We officially have a non-training wheels bike rider!

And let's not Cora, who is pretty speedy (and adorable) on the scooter, along with Mira who enthusiastically clapped and stumbled behind them.

We have since attempted a few more times of Ina riding her bike. She is doing really well once she gets started. It is the starting and stopping that are challenging, as she currently prefers to use her shoes as brakes. Our goal is for her to be able to ride the (hilly) mile to school before kindergarten ends.

My family from Texas was in town this week and Abby helped with watching the girls on Monday and Tuesday because Granny had the week off. The girls loved having Abby around and we celebrated her birthday with pizza and cheesecake on Tuesday.

Then on Wednesday Uncle John and another cousin Ashley stopped by the house and joined us for song class and swim lessons. The girls are pretty much smitten when they are in town.

(Cora and Mira went to the pumpkin patch with Danielle!)

On Friday I introduced the girls and Dan to The Sound of Music, and they all loved the first two hours, but couldn't hang for the ending. I forgot just how good that movie is. 

The weekend was a full one. It started with a run/walk with Danielle, and then working for a few hours. As soon as I ended my last patient call, we all loaded up in the van and met our friends for a memorial walk for their daughter. You can see me holding a scooter while pushing two children in my single double stroller.

We also ran into Miss Kim who was running her pretty little heart out. She even is completely put together while exercising. Goals. 

We came home and while Dan and the girls rested I did all the things: cleaned floors, cooked food, laundry, and squeezed a shower in before it was time to head to our friends' house for a little fall fun.

The Gartmans are a family new to our small group that have a beautiful house and property with a pond, paddle boat, barn, greenhouse, chicken coop, horses, goats, and even a zip line.

It was pretty much every kids' dream come true. Ina held a chicken, Cora touched a catfish, and Mira not-so-gently pet a pony.

They even took us on a hay ride!

When we were leaving Ina told me it was better than the best day of her life. All three girls were asleep before we made it to the highway and had to be carried up the stairs.

We woke up on Sunday for church and then brunch with my dad's side of the family. We had a breakfast burrito bar and Dan made these amazing chorizo potatoes. The girls were in heaven having their cousins around. 

We didn't even close the door between the last family member leaving and the first small group member walking in - just the way I like it. Small group was absolutely fantastic, like always, and we finished the weekend with another Chiefs win. 

It was a good one.

I only have a few recipes to share.
I also have been loving being back at the gym. I have gone every weekday morning at 5 am for 5 weeks in a row! The accountability and community they provide are just fantastic.

Have a fantastic week! <3

Thursday, October 18, 2018

Walking + Circus + Birthday Parties

I am determined to find time to blog in my new morning routine of 4:40 alarm, gym at 5, lunch making at 6:10, kids up at 6:30, get ready for work and dress kids at 7, leave for work or start work at 8.

My initial solution to this would be to have the kids sleep in until 7 and blog between 6:30 and 7, but so far they don't seem interested in that plan. I suppose cartoons and blogging will have to suffice.

We had so much rain last week. Granny's basement flooded, which was not fun at all, but we are going to look on the bright side of the rain - puddles.

You gotta love a girl in rain boots.

Mira started walking! She had taken a few steps here and there but now she is walking across the room! She still mostly crawls, but when she decides to walk, she almost saunters from place to place, looking like she is expecting you to make a big deal out of her incredible feat.

Friday night was our church's Dream Team (people who serve at the church) appreciation event. It was 80's themed so I added a pink headband to my typical workout gear and we had so, so much fun.

There was BBQ, confetti, 80's music, laughter, dancing, and an awesome drum solo by Kyle. In between two of the songs, Ina looked at me and said, "I love this church."


This was the weekend of birthday parties. We celebrated Gibson turning 4 at our house. Having a party at your house is particularly fun if you do none of the cleaning, planning, cooking, or prepping. The theme was dinosaurs and Danielle had the kids decorate safari hats and then dig in sand for dinosaur bones. It was simultaneously genius and adorable and simple and awesome.

During Gibson's birthday Dan and Ina went to her friend from her class's birthday at LegoLand and had a great time. On Sunday Ina also had a swim party from another girl in her class.

(I am so thankful for Amazon. As soon as I see a birthday invite I order a gift and it is done.)

After the parties on Saturday we met Jessie and the kids for the circus that had come to town.

I feel like the circus is a great opportunity for lesson teaching. See kids, look at what you can accomplish if you practice hard at something for a very long time.

No kids, you cannot have ALL THE THINGS they try to sell you after you pay good money to get into the tent.

Well, maybe at least some cotton candy.

After the circus we went to dinner at their favorite Mexican restaurant and I had a delcious margarita and some amazing street tacos. Then Kauffman and Hallaway came home with us and spent the night.

(It is never too early for matching Christmas jammies.)

Sunday was a whirlwind of donuts, church, out to lunch with family, football, and more family time.

The only recipe for last week I have to share is braised pork with cabbage (we didn't have pomegranate juice, so I used an apple juice box).

We also ordered the new Skinnytaste cookbook One and Done and tried the pressure cooker pho (sorry, no recipe to link). It was so fun to make something so fun and flavorful (and quick!) at home. Will repeat.

My new book for the week is Off the Clock. So far I am loving it, but that is to be expected, because I love Laura.

Have a great rest of your week! <3

Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Spirit Week + Rendezvous

Hey! I hope you are enjoying every ounce of fun that October has to offer!

(Aren't they just they absolute sweetest?)

Monday we had our dance/voice lesson 2.25 hour marathon (45 minute dance for Cora, 30 minute voice for both, and then an hour dance for Ina) and then came home to Monday night football and chili mac for dinner. I have to admit, I was in a funk of Monday. Some days are just hard.

Tuesday after work I picked the girls up from school/Granny's and took them for a walk around the lake. Why don't I do this more often? We all had a great time climbing hills and riding the scooter, saw lots of nature (frogs, ducks, caterpillars, and butterflies), threw rocks in the lake, and left with a few new bruises and scrapes. I am putting this on my weekly to-do list until snow.

(Mis-match day at school)

Wednesday we hung around the house after Ina's swim lessons were cancelled, ate leftovers for dinner, cleaned up a bit, and watched a movie together. Nothing wrong with a low key evening.

This week was homecoming/spirit week at school and every day had a theme. I loved these when I was in school, so I made sure to lay everything out for Ina on Sunday.

Princess Day:

Crazy hair day:

Thursday was our home town's homecoming parade. Dan was still working, so I loaded up the double jogging stroller, threatened Ina to stay close to me, and walked down Main Street by myself with three children. Other than one of the stroller wheels rolling off (thankfully, a nice man from my church just happened to be walking down the street to help me fix it), things went great!

We set up shop next to Courtney and a few high school friends and caught a bunch of candy (to Cora's absolute delight). We saw the band, many Wizard of Oz Floats, firemen, and the homecoming court.

Ina knew more people than me at the parade (it is important to note that I have lived in this town since I was in 4th grade and was/am pretty involved in a variety of things), and stopped multiple times to hug kids from her class, church, recess, etc. and continued to introduce me to their moms.

We came home to belly-warming soup for dinner and a very early bath and bedtime.

Friday was more of the same, with early bedtime and reading (gotta meet those October goals!).

Saturday started with a whole lot of rain (that really hasn't ended) making a walk impossible, so Danielle and I did the 21 Day Fix cardio instead. I am still sore.

After I worked for a few hours, Dan and I packed up the girls, camping chairs, and bikes and headed to Knob Knoster State Park for Papa Dana and Gigi Sherri's annual Rendezvous eating extravaganza. I wish I could put into words how amazing the food was, but it is hands down my favorite eating day of the year.

Having three fussy kids in a muddy camp site can be challenging, but we had a great time. Ina and Cora rode the scooter and balance bike back and forth until they could barely stand and then played with rocks to their hearts' content (thanks to Sherri's genius idea of giving them a plastic bag to put rocks in). I am already looking forward to next year.

We were hoping to stop by Dan's uncle's housewarming party on the way home, but all three girls were exhausted and fast asleep by 7:30 and the thought of waking them up and taking them into a party sounded just cruel.

Sunday we did a little house cleaning and bread making, went to church, then to the Nybergs' for lunch and the beginning of the Chiefs game and then drove home for the end of the game and small group.

Food from the Week
Monday: Chili mac with roasted brussels sprouts, all cooked by Danielle. The perfect Monday night football food.

Tuesday: Korean-style chicken lettuce wraps (used ground turkey instead of chicken and pure maple syrup instead of brown sugar) with roasted zucchini and broccoli - with the lettuce, zucchini, broccoli, cilantro, and green onions on my plate, I felt very healthy and had no reservations about grabbing seconds.

Wednesday: leftovers

Thursday: butternut squash soup, insalta brassica copy cat (arugula, shredded brussels sprouts, bacon, cranberries, Parmesan cheese, almonds, and a maple Dijon vinaigrette), and grilled sandwiches for the kids/men.

Friday: Sheet pan totchos  - I changed the recipe a time I will stick with the original suggestions.

Saturday: no cooking on my end, just lots of eating at Dan's dad's annual Rendez Vous. I wish I could describe and/or photograph this event in a way to do it justice, but the best I can say is to imagine Thanksgiving dinner on steroids. My favorite meal of the year.

Sunday: leftovers

Lunch: my favorite broccoli tuna salad with Simple Mills almond flour crackers.

Also, if you are looking for something else to read - A very interesting read about self care. I am an "obliger", and I can verify that the absolute easiest way for me to exercise is to meet someone else to do it. Perhaps I need to create this in other areas of my life. Anyone want to join a book club?

Have a great week! <3

Friday, October 5, 2018

Three October Goals

1. Making moving as a family a priority. During the summer, with the pool open and the sun constantly up, ensuring the kids move enough is effortless. However, I have noticed that during the fall we become significantly more inactive.

Actionable steps:

  • Attempt to teach Ina to ride her bike. She doesn't really seem to care that she still requires training wheels, so I told her she could ride her bike to school (with me running next to her) once in a while if she learned. Hopefully that is good motivation.
  • Weekly dance parties. Trying to follow Let's Dance videos on YouTube is a legit workout.
  • After dinner walks - not long, even 10 minutes helps!
  • Outings that involve hiking, exploring, or moving. I am thinking the park, Longview Lake, pumpkin patch, etc.
  • Nature scavenger hunts

2. Read more books. More books for myself and more books for the girls. The other day I realized that Mira is being read to significantly less than Ina was at her age (around 5 books a week versus 5 books a day), as we do most of our reading after she is asleep. Ina is also reading out loud really well, but I am not doing a great job of sitting down and listening to her read, which is something I would like to change.

Actionable steps:

  • Weekly library trips
  • Read at least one book to Mira daily
  • Read four books (for me) in October. I am already half way through one, and have three more checked out from the library, so the hardest part is done.
  • Have Ina read out loud to Mira. Genius.

3. Lose five pounds. Ugh, I hate to be so specific/public/body shaming-esque. I wanted so badly to effortlessly "clean up my eating" and exercise more and have the last 5 to 10 pounds of baby weight just fall away. It turns out that (for me, at least) mostly eating clean and consistently exercising is a great strategy for weight maintenance, not weight loss. So, if I really want this to happen I need to be specific and intentional while also enjoying life.

Actionable steps:
  • Track food on My Fitness Pal and make a decent effort to stay within the calorie limit most days of the week.
  • Exercise every day (gym on weekdays, morning walks on the weekends)
  • Drink 80 oz of water per day.
And other things to do/look forward to in October:
  • Order 2019 planner (ridiculously excited).
  • Buy a new coat. My current one pre-dates my six year old daughter, so I think it is time for an upgrade.
  • Get my eyebrows waxed. I always put this off and then think, I can do this myself, and then accidentally wax off half my eyebrow. Plus, going to the salon feels like such a treat, even if it is only for 15 minutes. 
  • Take the girls to a pumpkin patch. I can't wait to see Cora's face light up as the corn pit was her absolute favorite thing of 2017.
  • Get flu shots for the family. Necessary.
  • Dan's dad's Rendezvous meal (favorite meal of the year)
  • Our church's Dream Team Appreciation night. Always so fun.
  • So many birthday parties
  • A friend's wedding - built in date night!
  • Ina's parent teacher conferences-looking forward to hearing how the year is going!

Wednesday, October 3, 2018

Currently: October

Happy October!

At 6:59 am I have already been to the gym, read my bible, packed lunches, showered, dressed, and put make-up on and all THREE of the girls are still asleep. I considered it a sign it was about time to write a blog post.

Here is what has been happening around here lately:


  • The words "butt cheeks" are said in my house (and in public places) way more than I would like to admit, but darn, I can't help but giggle right along with them.
  • Watching Mira and all of her adorable quirks. Gosh I forgot how lovable a one year old can be. If music comes on she pumps her right arm and puts her head down before she starts to bob up and down dancing, she constantly points to things and says, "dat", she practically begs you to make her let our a deep belly laugh, she spontaneously gives the sweetest open mouth kisses, she sweetly lays her head on my chest and silently, willingly, lets me rock her to sleep every night and every night I try to savor the moment as much as I can, thinking she couldn't possibly let me do this one more night...and then she does. 


  • Football - loving some Kansas City wins! I stayed up waaayyy past my bedtime and watched the end of the Monday night football game in bed without my contacts in.
  • Solo - well, the first hour before I couldn't possibly keep my eyes open past 9:20
  • The Art of Parenting - our current small group study that is free to anyone! I am loving the conversations these little videos are starting with some of my favorite people.

Reading (my library card is getting a workout lately):


*cooked by Danielle - noted just to point out that no one can do everything. <3



  • Our neighbor Kim invited Ina over to knit a scarf. Ina craves these activities more than anything, and I rarely put priority on the time and patience they require, so we were both so thankful for Kim. Ina couldn't stop smiling when she came home.
  • My friend from the gym Liz made me a belated birthday carrot cake with candied pecans and a caramel drizzle. It tasted even better than it looked.
  • One Saturday a few of my friends had a mom's day/night. We had brunch, went to a winery, chatted, walked, shopped, and ate dinner. It may have been the fastest day of my life and was exactly what I needed.

My dream meal - kale salad and french fries at The West Side Local

Brunch at Blue Bird Bistro - delicious!


  • MCT oil and collagen - I fell on the bulletproof coffee train.
  • PlanetBox Rover Lunch Box. I spent hours looking at these things, putting them in and out of my cart, convincing myself that I should or should not spend that amount of money on a lunch box, searching used options on Ebay, looking at Amazon for knock off versions, etc. and then finally decided I needed to go ahead and buy one for the time saving advantages alone. Since then I have loved packing Ina's lunch. No regrets. 


  • The gym! Dan's new work schedule allows me to return, which is super exciting. I missed everyone there and getting my workout done and over with by 6 am leaves room for lots of other stuff. 
  • Closets - everyone got a fall revamp. Now poor Cora doesn't have to wear jeans that come up to the middle of her shin.


  • Out to eat with the family! Dan and I have taken the girls to a sit down restaurant two weeks in a row, which is a pretty big deal for our family. We took them to a new pho place in town and had so much fun.
  • To Girl Scouts. Maybe. If it fits in our schedule.

Now that we are all caught up, I am hoping to be back every week! Have a good October! <3

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